MommaRu Blog

Upward Flag Football

2011-10-25T11:32:00.001-04:00

Caleb loved flag football. It was chaos, but lots of fun to watch. He now plays pretend games everywhere he goes. And in these games he's the coach, announcer and all the players. Dialogue goes something like this, "He's a new comer! Down, Set, Hut! Stay with me. Great job, you did good. Are you ready. Know where the ball is Caleb! His running and got him down. Tackle me, tackle me!"

I would say he doesn't excel in football like baseball, but he loved it and learned a lot from his great coaching. He went from running for a loss most of the time to ending the season finding the holes. He became a decent little receiver. Now if we could just get him to pick up his feet, so he could move up the field faster than a snail's pace. He got his Momma's running ability, at least right now. Hopefully the superior athletic genes of Daddy will kick in as he matures. He was one of the youngest on the team with ages ranging from 5-7.

(top left/right) Coach Terry, Coach Paul, Daddy

(Middle L/R) Aiden, Jack D, Ryan, Caleb, Jackson M.

(Bottom L/R) Brayden, Michael, Matt, Jackson S.

2011-09-18T23:23:00.003-04:00

Family Christmas Photoshoot 2011 by mommaru featuring wrap shoes

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Update

2011-03-27T23:28:00.001-04:00

We just had or parent teachers conference at Caleb's school. We love his teachers and are very thankful that God knew exactly which class would allow Caleb to flourish. There were seven categories they look at and overall Caleb did great.

Math Readiness- He does great, but still skips the numbers 14 and 17 when counting no matter how high he goes. I think he can count to 50 if he can stay focused. He has known all his shapes since 2, so when he didn't get all of these correct I am sure he just lost interest in the activity.

Reading Readiness-I learned rhyming is an important activity to prepare for reading. He loves nursery rhymes, so we have been reading these lately and he especially loves Goosey Goosey Gander. Probably because the goose throws the guy down the stairs for not praying.

Practical Skills-such as his name and phone number. I need to be more intentional with teaching him how to call Mommy.

Social/Emotional Skills-he did great in this area and I was extremely happy to hear he has never melted down at school.

Fine Motor Skills- This is by far his weakest area. He doesn't like to write and is adamant that getting it done fast is far superior to quality. Both the kids love Play Doh, so I will try to incorporate this into our activities more often.

Self-Help Skills-He was on target in this area. One benefit of a mommy that always tries to squeeze in too much is self sufficient little ones. He picks out his outfit and dresses himself almost everyday. Sometimes his coordination is a little questionable, but I love that I am seeing his personality though what he likes to wear.

Gross Motor Skills-this area is his strength. He is so athletic and enjoys competition. He is wired to a be a brave warrior. As his Mommy I am not sure if I like the thought of him going off to war, but I am sure he will be a leader on the ball field someday. He is already coordinating games and activities with his classmates during gym time.

Speaking and Listening Skills- He is strong in verbal communication; however, he struggles with attention span. I finally understand the true problem with TV. It is extremely stimulating and I am pretty convinced in Caleb's case TV is the main contributing factor to his short attention span. It is my fault. He doesn't watch a ton of TV, but if he ever seems bored and thus restless resulting in trouble I use the TV to stimulate him. We do so much that is fun together and rarely slow down. Pretty much our only quiet time is before bed or watching TV. I am going to try to do extremely limited screen time and not use the TV as a crutch to get stuff done. I am hoping this helps. Mrs. Trax recommended we wait on Kindergarden for this reason alone. We were planning on waiting another year, and any doubt on whether or not this was a good decision was a eliminated.

Makaylee is still her sweet self.

She has been asserting her independence, which I appreciate until we are in a hurry. Sadly, because time management is not a quality I posses we are always running late. "I do it myself" creates a major obstacle to every outing. I need to add an extra five to allow for synergy in our lives. I know this, yet I still haven't adjusted.

Her communication is drastically improving. I can tell she is going to have the gift of gab. I love this!! She enjoys a good salad and as we share spinach bits I flash forward to the times we are sharing lunch and life stories.

We are struggling with bedtime. She is having a hard time falling asleep and thus decides to wonder into the hallway. Often, I find her lying on the floor outside her room with her little pillow, blankey and a book. It might be time to cut the afternoon nap to an hour tops.

We have been trying to get her to potty train, but it seems intimidating to her. I don't want to push it, so I just mention it to her multiple times a day. I got her big girl room all ready and told her when she is ready to potty she gets to move into her big girl room. She likes the idea of being a big girl, but doesn't like the changes that accompany this label. A put up a shelf in the new room and didn't have anything she wouldn't break to go on it, so I decided to steal a great idea form my friend at Funmoms and make custom blocks to decorate the shelf and add an interest item. She loves them!!

Her nickname from Attie Jo

Loving the Prickels

2011-02-05T11:38:00.000-05:00

The last thing I usually want to do is love someone who is hard to get along with and rubs me the wrong way. Prickly people are hard to love. However, loving those whom posses qualities that drive me crazy is one area that I could gain much ground. I would really like to pass on to C&M the ability to love people despite their unlovables.

Matthew 5:43-48
You have heard that it was said, "Love your neighbor and hate your enemy." But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

My Aunt sent this to me and I thought it was a wonderful illustration of the value of bearing with one another.

Fable of the Porcupine

It was the coldest winter ever. Many animals died because of the cold. The porcupines, realizing the situation, decided to group together. This way, they covered and protected themselves; but, the quills of each one wounded their closest companions even though they gave off heat to each other.

After awhile, they decided to distance themselves one from the other and they began to die, alone and frozen. So they had to make a choice: either accept the quills of their companions or disappear from the Earth.

Wisely, they decided to go back to being together. This way they learned to live with the little wounds that were caused by the close relationship with their companion, but the most important part of it, was the heat that came from the others. This way they were able to survive.

Therefore: The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but the best is when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities.
The Moral of the story!

LEARN TO LOVE THE PRICKS IN YOUR LIFE.

1) Everyone is created in God's image. So if we are worthy of love, so is everyone else because of who made them.

2) Because of sin, we're all really unlovable. But Christ changed the rules by offering love, grace and forgiveness (Romans 5:8). If God can love us, surely we can love those around us.

Are You For Real?

2011-02-02T14:54:00.004-05:00

There has been much talk about Ben Roethlisberger lately, and his so called changed life. Critics are very skeptical, Steeler loyalist want to believe it's true and fans are still convinced he did nothing wrong. This is not a unique story, you can hear echos as people discuss Miley Cyrus and others who live under the microscope. It does make me sad to watch people who profess Christ who 's faith seems so hypocritical. But, before I pass judgement on these people I must take a hard look at myself. I am sure there are skeptics out there that only knew me as an angry, jealous hearted teenager who thought girls rule and men were pigs. Who bought into the belief that women have the right to choose what they do our don't do with their body, because it really isn't a baby anyway. Believed being the best at everything I did was what brought me worth. I don't know if Ben is really sold out for Jesus His life will tell, but I know that I am and I know it was a hard and scary journey that I hope is not the path Makaylee and Caleb face to really know their Savior. I thank God everyday that in His mercy He loved me enough to shake me and awake me to the truth He is there, He loves me, but the consequence of sin is death.

Like Ben, I have darkness in my past that hit it's pinnacle August 27th 1994. I grew up in a divorced home placing no value on family and the role of a mommy. So when I received the news I was pregnant just a few weeks after my 18th birthday I was mortified. There was only one option and the only thing standing in my way was the 350 dollars I needed. I truly believed it wasn't a baby just a bundle of cells. I believed I had a plan for college and a career, and becoming a mom at 18 was just not part of that plan. So, I scheduled my appointment, had the abortion and that is when the Lord in his amazing grace, rocked my world. After an abortion you are drugged up and tired, so I came home and slept. The phone seemed to be constantly ringing. All day ringing. I didn't want to talk to anyone, but after several hours I decided I was filling a little better, so I would finally answer. There is so much about that day that's fogging, but this phone call changed my life forever and I will never forget it.

Caller, "Jamie?, Are you okay?"
Me, "yes, why?"
Caller, "Did you hear what happened?"
Me, "No, what?"
Caller,"I think your brother was in a car accident and I don't think he survived."

It's rarely something I think about, because it is a pain that still penetrates deep, but it's the most concrete example for me of God's ways are not mine and He loves me so much that He will go to any measure to pull us out of our sin. For many years I did believe that Travis dying at the exact same time as I chose to kill my baby, was a cruel punishment. While, I don't believe it was a punishment anymore, I know that it wasn't by accident. This emotionally crippling, heart breaking event grabbed my attention and forced me to really ask the question does God really exist and if He does what is He all about? For the first time eternity mattered. It took several years, more humbling and Godly people being the hands and feet of Christ, but I can say with confidence today that I am forgiven for the choice that I made. I still sin, lose my temper, and by God's power will continue to grow in these areas until that day that I am called home. When, I will meet Makaylee and Caleb's sibling and my oldest child and be reunited with my brother. Who through God's divine plan spent the last summer of his life developing his relationship with our loving Savior Jesus.

I hope you will take a minute to watch this video and realize that there are many scared girls out there just like me. Who without a miracle will make the choice that I did, and have to live always wondering about their child.

Football Fans

2010-12-23T22:37:00.058-05:00

One of my favorite things about living in Pittsburgh are the sports. It reminds me of the awesome camaraderie I experienced in college being a Red Raider. So, of course I have totally jumped on the Steeler bandwagon. I am a HUGE fan and so is Caleb.

He's still a huge Jordon fan, thus loyal to the Lions, but it's fam, so I can't blame him. Fathead commercials did their job and persuaded Caleb to ask over and over for a life size picture of Jordon to put on his wall. I told him that would be too expensive, so he compromised and asked for the helmet instead.

Caleb loves Polamalu and dished out hugs and smiles.

after receiving miniature fatheads of 6 key Steelers.

I've really enjoyed the fun and bonding that football has brought to the family. It is so exciting watching my little guy work hard at something all on his own. He is already running routes and catching balls at 4. Impressive. It's such a joy watching daddy and brother play together. Even sissy will occasionally get in on the action,

but is always faithful to show her girly side, taking a dolly break.

Christmas from Grandpa Cowboy and The Westbrooks

2010-12-22T23:54:00.009-05:00

Attie and her new Palomino from the kids.

Publish Post

Lots to be thankful for

2010-11-29T08:26:00.015-05:00

We went to Texas this year and had a fabulous time. I always love this time of the year, because it encourages reflection on things for which we are grateful. When I think about all these incredible things I'm humbled and awed. I come from a broken home and grow up with no knowledge of how to have a strong married, yet I could not ask for a better marriage. Not to say we do not have conflict, but we always work it out. We love each other, and are best friends. I have two amazingly beautiful, full of life, determined little ones, who love their mommy so much. I feeling very loved by my sweet little family.

I also have a tremendous extended family that have been there for my Dad, sister and me. My Dad and my sister are the strongest most courageous people I know. I am so blessed to have shared this life with them.

(caleb took this picture)

I have phenomenal in-laws. We differ in so many ways, yet they have taught me so much about unconditional love. They've helped me to become more affectionate and modeled service unparalleled. We always have fun being silly together.

We live in a great community, with amazing schools, people, church, and Cory's awesome job is just around the corner. Our quality of life is very refreshing. We never feel rushed and are able to maintain margin. We've developed super friends, in the short time we've lived here. There are hard days, but because of my awesome Savior I am now able to put things in perspective. I never get too low, a stark contrast to my person before Jesus. Life is not perfect, but I often think please don't pinch me because if this is a dream I don't want to wake up.

Little Quarterback

2010-11-20T16:37:00.000-05:00

Is there a quarterback in our future? Here is Caleb running a play action pass. Be patient it takes a second to load. This boy loves football.

Bibleman the Superhero and his sidekick Biblegirl

2010-10-31T08:28:00.226-04:00

Several months back I bought Caleb a Bibleman DVD, because it was in the $5 pile at a Christian book store. He loved it. It was action packed with sword fights, explosions and domination of villains. I honestly thought it was super cheesy. However, it was packed full of Scripture, so it seemed like a win, win. He has started memorizing Ephesians 6 and can quote ever piece of the armor of God, thanks to the full armor sequence. I loved it. Then we went to the Little Gym and it was Superhero week. When Mr. Justin asked what their favorite Superhero was the others spouted off, Batman, Spiderman, Ironman and the like. Not Caleb. He proudly waited his turn with great anticipation at revealing the greatest Superhero ever known, BIBLEMAN. Sadly, he got blank stares from his peers and a "Who?" from Mr. Justin. I watched as my Little Buddy experienced for the first time the feeling that not going along with the crowd brings. He handled it well in the moment, but for the rest of the day he didn't mention Bibleman or want to talk about his former hero. I was sad. It was a taste of the years ahead. I saw a glimpse of the answer to a question I am sure many mothers ask, "will my child be a leader or follow the pack to fill accepted." I couldn't blame him. A part of me wanted him to say Ironman, because I knew Bibleman would not be well received and I'm definitely not ready to watch his sweet heart break from perceived rejection. Thankfully so far, he matches the Caleb of the Bible he was named after and is a natural born leader. At times his desire to do what he wants can be a battle for mommy, but I love that he rarely does something, just because everyone else is doing it. After, just a couple days of straying from his Superhero he decided all on his own, to be loyal to Bibleman, no matter the cost. He proudly told everyone he came across he was going to be Bibleman for Halloween. I was so proud of how my 4 year old processed this event and I was determined to make his Bibleman costume something he would love. Being that this costume is not in high demand all that was available was the mask and cape. So, we had to make do. We crafted the belt of truth together. I ordered a silver Ironman costume and stuck on yellow duck tape to represent the breastplate of righteousness. He wore his super cool Sketches and shin guards covered in duck tape as his shoes of peace. Skateboard pads covered in yellow duck tape were perfect for the shield of faith. The mask equipped us with the helmet of salvation. Finally we purchased a light up sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God.

Watching him put it on going through the sequence is pretty awesome. I know he has little to no idea what he is talking about, but one day he will. And one day it won't be feeling rejected over a silly little costume. I hope he clings tightly to the truths that will protect him.

About a month later it was Halloween. I had pretty much forgotten about the previously mentioned events. Caleb was so excited to finally be allowed to wear his costume. The costume I originally planned for Sissy to wear was not going to work, so I asked her what she wanted to be. She decided BibleGirl would be great.

After I got her BibleGirl costume, she saw a pink princess she wanted to be, but I made her stick with her first idea. I don't know how I didn't think of it, but it never dawned on me that I might be sending my kids out to slaughter. Halloween is not a exactly known as a Christian holiday and yet I was sending my babies out covered in crosses going door to door. In a weak moment I thought about trying to convince him to go as Ironman. Yes, I realize I am pathetic. We decided however, to let Caleb know that some people might be offended by his costume and that was okay. We told him to not to worry if anyone said something unkind. And we encouraged him to not return evil for evil. "If someone says they don't like your costume, you tell them you like theirs, we said." The family spent the day at one of the local farms. Thankfully, everyone thought Caleb looked great. One little boy with much enthusiasm told Caleb, "you are so cool." They became buds and played together. I was very thankful the world was kind. We had a great time trick-or treating the neighborhood with our good friends. Caleb, Sissy and Landon had a blast and got tons of yummy goodies.

It has been a month and Caleb asks daily to wear his Bibleman costume. It doesn't even phase him when older boys tell him Halloween is over and he needs to stop wearing his costume. I know there is a fine line between weird and nonconformist, but I'm proud that for now my Little Buddy marches to the beat of his own drum and doesn't just follow the herd.

Vegas Vacation

2010-10-22T13:04:00.002-04:00

Kaycee and I have been wanting to make a trip to visit our Grandparents for some time now and we finally made it happen. After, the first few days of my kids melting down from lack of sleep we adjusted to the 3 hour time change, and had a blast. Vegas is not a place one would normal take kiddos, and I am not endorsing taking a family vacation by any means. But, I'm extremely thankful that we were able to find many kid friendly activities. The hotels alone are beyond amazing. Very telling that gaming is rigged in favor of the hotels. We got to enjoy all the amazing amenities, and beside food and hotel costs we didn't leave a penny in Vegas.

We stayed at the MGM Grand, because it had a fun pool area and the ever popular lion cubs.

The majority of our time was spent enjoying the sites at the Mirage. They not only had an amazing volcano show that happened ever hour,

But also a wildlife exhibit inhabited with all kids of exotic animals. Caleb just happens to love all meat eating BIG CATS.

The girls really enjoyed the dolphins,

and all of them were very excited

to get fun new animals from Soho.

The Mirage offered a number of photo friendly backdrops, so with a little bribing we got the kids to take a number of pictures.

With my Grandparents living in Vegas for over 40 years I've made a few trips to "Sin City". I remember a time when they were trying to make it more family friend and created a lot of shows entertaining for a younger audience. Those days and rightly so, are over. We took the kids to TI for the pirate show and they loved it.

However, the ladies were very scantily dressed. We decide that we would not be returning after over hearing Attie Jo quoting lines for the play, "My name is Cimmamem (Cinnamon), but you can call me Cim (Sin) for short."

We went to the Tournament of Kings at Excalibur, which was actually a little scary. Thankfully, the kids were not phased by the evil dragon.

They were too awestruck by the horses, sword fighting, fireworks and being allowed to yell while eating dinner with their fingers.

We also went to the shark aquarium at Mandalay Bay, which the kids really enjoyed. However, my favorite part of the trip was watching the children interact with their Great Grandparents.

Caleb and Attie spent sometime with Grandma Connee when they were really young but haven't seen her for a number of years, and Makaylee had never meet her. The way they warmed up to her you would think they spent time with her on a regular basis. It made it into a treasured memory.

It brings tears to my eyes knowing that my sweet little ones will have joyful memories of their Great Grandparents, as I do mine.

Another spectacular attraction in Vegas is the Bellagio. There is a beautiful fountain show outside,

and the inside is exquisitely decorated. Of course we tortured the kids with more pictures.

Paradise Park in Motown

2010-09-20T21:22:00.002-04:00

Traveling with a 2 and 4 year old is always associated with a little anxiety for me. Not because I necessarily want it to just be a super pleasant experience for them. I am all about pushing them a little outside of their comfort zone, but more because I want to create an environment that allows me to be successful as their mommy and not communicate anything that might cause lasting scars. I was a sensitive kid and it penetrated deep when I felt like an announce, so I do my best to avoid communicating that to my precious gifts. But, if I am honest sometimes they just annoy the badonkadonk out of me. It's my issue I am easily irritated and I am so thankful that God is using their lives to refine me in this area. I knew 12 hours in the car, 4 hours watching a football game and a couple of sit down meals were sure to result in a few meltdowns, so I wanted to find one activity they would thoroughly enjoy. There is a fun activity park just a couple miles from Chelsea and Jordon's, so I decide we would go. A kid crazed atmosphere is not necessarily my cup of tea, but denying self is a huge part of this parenting gig. So, after a fun morning hanging with the fam we headed to Paradise Park.

I am not a huge fan of trampolines because they are not the safest apparatus, especially when you put a few rough and tumble boys in the mix. These tramps were great, they each had their own area and were completely enclosed by a safety net. Yes, I sound like a super over protective mother, but with good cause. In 5th grade I got spiked on my head off a tramp and walked around with lopsided shoulders for over a week.

Exhaustion set in, so we moved on to some car racing.

These little cars were lacking in thrill, so we decided to move on to the Speedway.

IT was a blast. We are slightly competitive in the Ruiz family. Turning everything into a competition makes it much more enjoyable to do the not so fun parts of life. However, if you don't handle losing well it can make for many teaching opportunities. Caleb has shed many a tear over not getting to the top of the stairs the fastest, not being first to clean up his toys or losing our nightly race of who can scrub their teeth the fastest. Thankfully, the Speedway was just fun competition and Caleb and Daddy totally smoked us, so Caleb was all smiles.

NCU vs Michigan State

2010-09-19T19:00:00.005-04:00

When we found out that Clay would be playing a game within a few hours of home we had to go. It's hard for me to believe that he is a 200 pound college football player. He was Caleb's age when we moved to the foothills of Tucson, AZ. In many ways Caleb's intense personality reminds me of my little buddy Clay (now not such a little buddy). Like Clay, Caleb loves dinosaurs, is very determined, can't sit still and has to do things in his time on his terms. It is encouraging to see what a neat guy Clay has turned out to be and gives me hope that my little determined buddy will follow suit.

Their team was playing a top ranked team in their stadium with green everywhere. I couldn't resist this picture even though it was our opponent's attire.

At the half the kids needed a break from sitting, so we went and played a little ball. We had a blast. It has been so fun watching Caleb's interest in sports develop. We haven't pushed it and the boy loves football as much as baseball. It is an every day activity for him to find his Nerf ball and throw it against the wall. Listening to him play an entire football game through his imagination is very entertaining.

The kids did really well, much better than I was anticipating for a 4 hour game in the cold. Always thankful for pleasant outings.

Our Buddy Clay running off the field.

Chelsea, Clay, Jordan and Grandpa Cowboy (with a tired Sissy in hand)

We had so much fun hanging with family. Makaylee loved playing with her pretty and fun cousin Chelsea. If I've ever questioned the value of quality time, that questioning has been totally eliminated. After one afternoon of Jordon playing football with Caleb, he is his new hero. Thanks to the Fathead commercials he wants a life size picture of Jordon for his bedroom. He is determined to get a Detroit Lion's helmet and won't take off his Lion's Jersey. He told me this morning he wants Jordon and Polamalu on his birthday cake. "Jordon will be tackling and Polamalu will have the ball." We are still working on comprehension of offense and defense. :)

Pirates Camp 2010

2010-09-18T16:19:00.093-04:00

Caleb got an opportunity to take part in a rare opportunity and go to a baseball camp hosted by the Pirates.

I'm not sure if he fully understood what a cool opportunity this was, but Daddy sure thought it was amazing as did Mommy, Uncle Dan Dan and Grandma.

Caleb was by far the youngest kid,

but he loved every minute of it. His favorite part was pitching. He did a little praying before starting his least favorite part base running.

He found that even running was extra fun when you have the Pirate's 1st baseman Garrett Jones and coach Jeff Banister instructing.

Sister enjoyed escorting her big brother to the field and watching him perfect his skills.

Caleb was thankful Daddy was there to rescue him and run him up a 100 flights of stairs, so he made it to the restroom on time. Apparently there are no restrooms in the dugouts, even in MLB.

It really was a Mommy moment full of warm and fuzzies, watching my little one enjoy himself so much. We all enjoyed burgers and hotdogs and tickets to the Pirates game.

One of Garrett Jones' at bats.

Thanks to

for an awesome experience and a treasured memory.

Trax Farm

2010-09-17T15:52:00.002-04:00

There is a really cool farm here that has a fall festival with fun for the whole family. We had an amazing time with Cory's brother Daniel, Aunt Leslie and Grandma. You name it they had it. But, before we headed out for some fall fun, Caleb showed us his amazing frisbee skills.

Never ending piles of pumpkins were great for climbing.

A relaxing hayride overlooking the beautiful rolling hills of eastern Pennsylvania.

A very complicated Corn Maze that we still may be stuck in, if we had not cheated.

A train ride that is extra fun,

in the pretty purple car

or if you get to be the caboose.

And of course completed by the ever popular bouncy rides

A day full of fun, good food (turkey legs, pulled pork, cider slushes and amazing cookies) and FaMily!!

So Long Type A Momma

2010-09-09T00:11:00.003-04:00

After my last post I was feeling pretty down on life. Then I had to give myself a swift quick to the you know what and remember that I'm beyond blessed. I have the life I've always dreamed and yet I am still feeling like I don't measure up. What the heck is my problem? Well, the short is that I am a freakin Type A Nazi that has to have everything perfect to be content. Well, life with a 2 and 4 year old is seldom perfect. That is unless you describe perfect as chaos. So, after seeing my true colors thrown right in my face while stressing through every misplaced glitter and glue blob making what should have been a super fun poster for Caleb's 1st day of preschool, I decided to seriously try to roll more.

My goal is to be content with the chaos and let judging eyes remind me that my job is not to impress onlookers, but to shape my children in the mist of bringing them joy. It pains me, because I'm a crazy over the top joy kill. However, my new life goal is to be fun! What about discipline you might ask? Of one thing I'm certain, I will probably never error on the side of lacking discipline. This coming from the girl who would run at midnight if I haven't completed a scheduled workout. For the sake of the fam I must move away from the extreme and toward balance.

I got my first test tonight in the Lexus Club at the Pirates game.

I have to say not worrying about how your kids are acting makes this parenting thing a lot more enjoyable. Me and the kids had a blast hyped up on Crackerjacks and lemonade dancing, singing and screaming behind homeplate.

I even got a compliment from an older man that flying solo I was doing a great job, and looked like I had it together with my little ones. Amazing, the benefits of releasing control!!

Richly Blessed

2010-09-08T01:13:00.000-04:00

Today was not one of my finer days as Mommy. I would love to say it will be remedied when Cory returns from the mountains of Colorado. However, if I'm honest with myself my lack of self control is not unique to today. I was beyond frustrated with their lack of listening. Developing the skill of first time obedience is a never ending battle in the Ruiz home and today I lost the battle, big time. After a fun bubble bath and much disobedience I sent them to bed, and then cried. This mom thing is so beyond my skill set. My natural bent is fast to speak and quick to become angry and with my little ones constant desire to do what they want when they want, today I lost my patience. Then I felt guilty, because what I communicated crushed my sensitive little buddy. I decided I needed some wise counsel, so I prayed and as usual God delivered. I was reminded by the Tebow's that we are all created for a purpose. I sometimes forget that God uniquely designed my sweet little ones and that it wasn't by mistake that they are both determined. I must foster this amazing quality and not let it frustrate me. I pray this is at the forefront of my mind as I shape and guide my amazing treasures.

Animal Fever

2010-08-17T23:31:00.002-04:00

All three kiddos love animals, so a trip to the zoo was a must. It was extremely hot we were all a little exhausted, but still very enjoyable. My favorite zoo is still DFW, check out Barney's Zoo video and you can enjoy the awesome attractions, but our zoo is not to shabby.

I love watching the kids' excitement as they encounter each new species.

It always amazes me how simple things bring bright smiles to their faces. When do we lose that thrill for the life's simple pleasures? I also cherish that my kiddos love animals. I am not a duck squeezer by any stretch, but I find it heart warming that my kiddos have such a fondness for God's amazing creatures. Especially coming from a Daddy, who has no desire to deal with the hassle that man's best friend brings to life. The only animal we have been given the green light to bring into our home is a fish that requires no effort outside the occasional feeding.
The tiger gave us a show and walked right up to the glass the kids had their faces pressed against.

It was very exciting.

Makaylee's facial expression tells it all.

Totally shock and amazement!!

We had fun watching the seals and then doing a little photo shoot.

Which was farely successful thanks to the bribing method, highly recommended for influencing cooperation. The prize, a ride on the merry-go-round.

Summer Fun

2010-08-16T23:32:00.000-04:00

IdleWild was having a buddy day while Attie was visiting, so we decided to take a trip out to enjoy the fun. We had a blast. Caleb and Attie loved the rollercoaster and the log ride. Makaylee had a rough time being too little for most everything that Caleb wanted to go on, but we all got to enjoy Whip-it. They road ponies, watched a Circus and got their faces painted. Side note, Sissy, does not like clowns, for the second time she was so scared she was shaking and wanted to get far, far away. After and eventful day they were all exhausted and fell asleep on the drive home.

Caleb wasn't so fond of the dragon staring back at him in the mirror after his nap. He freaked out and wanted it gone, but before the dreary confusion, he thought the dragon was super cool. The girls looked super cute as matching kitty kitties.

The next day we enjoyed more summer fun at the pool, where all three perfected their cannonball.

All smiles when our family is visiting.

Backyard Fun

2010-08-15T18:39:00.007-04:00

Attie taught both the kids the joy of entertainment. They serenaded us with singing and dancing. Makaylee and Attie have always been very comfortable on center stage.

On the contrary this is not a place Caleb has historically thrived, but in the comfort of home he was a true entertainer and was quite willing to get his grove thing on.

Of course, it wasn't long before he was back where he feels most comfortable, hitting line drives.

Attie's swing is looking pretty good with Uncle Cory pitching.

They also enjoyed the fun playset,

playing rescue the princess and slay the dragon. Such creative kiddos. I later went to the top loft of the playset to find that the dragon had laid eggs (round rocks) and left his babies behind.

Football weekend

2010-08-14T17:05:00.004-04:00

Over the weekend I got the joy of not only having my sister, niece and Grandpa Cowboy in town, but my cousin Chelsea came to stay. It was nice visiting while the kids played. And sipping on wine on the deck after we put the kids down for the night, you can't beat that! The Steelers were scheduled to play the Lions for the first preseason game and Cory was able to get us all tickets for the big event. Normally, we would be 100% all in for the Steelers, but Caleb especially has become quite the fan of #57 of the Detroit Lions. We all meet up for breakfast in the city, which went amazingly well for a sit down meal with three little ones.

Attie, Chelsea, Caleb Jordon and Makaylee

After breakfast we did what girls do best and went and got pampered with pedicures. Then got decked out in our black and gold, scratch that, blue and silver for the big game.

Me, Brittany (Chelsea's friend) Chelsea, and Kaycee

The game didn't go exactly as planned. Right after the second half began Jordon got injured and we didn't know exactly what happened. Then it started to lightening, so there was a delay. We had to wait to know Jordon's status. It was hot, the kids were tired and we were concerned.

At first, Chels was told it was a sprain, but it turned out it was the whole knee, ACL, PCL and MCL. Such a bummer!! Caleb asks every day about how Jordon is doing, what happened and if he is playing football again. Jordon has a great attitude about it and looks at the positive. He gets a season to let his body recover from the years of pounding.

Catch Up

2010-08-13T16:50:00.000-04:00

I have totally dropped the ball on blogging, but it is so much easier to enjoy the present when I am not trying to keep up with documenting the past. However, to keep my loved ones posted and because someday I know my kiddos will thank me for this, I am going to try and press on. Okay, so to play some catch up from August. My beautiful sister and my lovely niece came to visit. We got to celebrate Attie turning 5. I can hardly believe it has been 5 years since I helped my sister with night duty, making sure that sweet little 5 pound baby was getting enough to eat every 3 hours.

She was feisty as a baby, but Attie is now probably the kindest, most considerate little girl I know. My sister is an amazing mommy. We had an awesome time and stayed extremely busy hanging out together for 9 days. Did I mention, I love that I got to share this time with my family. We explored the backyard and the kids found playing in the creek to be a blast.

This brought back such fond memories of making mud pies in the creek at the ranch in Thermopolis. While, it may not be a ranch with hundreds of acres. I am thankful my kids get to explore the outdoors right here at home. I love where we live. They definitely got decitified. At first, Caleb and Makaylee couldn't stand the slimy mud squishing in their toes or dirty hands, but with a little encouragement from their wilderness experienced, born and raised in the big WY cousin, they were having fun covered in dirt.

Fun Moms

2010-08-11T16:42:00.047-04:00

A friend of mine started a blog a few months ago to encourage, equip, and empower moms to have messy, silly, crafty, sporty, yummy, genuine, good ol' fashioned FUN with their kids. She wanted a visual image that communicates her desire to give moms unique and fun ways to move, make and munch with their kiddos. I got the opportunity to help her create this logo, because I have the software and I come at the low, low price of free!! I really think the image does a great job of communicating the message. I love everything about graphic design and hopefully someday I will pursue this passion. For now the little time I give to these activities comes at a big price for my kiddos. They definitely do not enjoy when Mommy's attention is diverted. However, I think refining the skill of independent play was a priceless lesson. It was also so rewarding to watch them interact from a far and further develop their cherished friendship.

I would really encourage you all to check out her blog. Just click the image.

Going Private and Popsicle Sillies

2010-08-05T16:41:00.000-04:00

I've decided to make this blog private, because my kids are getting older and Caleb is starting school soon. I feel it is necessary for safety and peace of mind, because he won't be in my care all the time. If you read and I am unaware, please let me know so I can add you to my list. I am starting a new public blog that will be more anonymous, but if I said where well then of course it wouldn't be anonymous. But, feel free to leave a comment and I will add you to the private list or give you the new address. This will be in effect in about 3 weeks.

And now for some good old fashioned popsicle silliness.

And of course baseball has to follow a popsicle cool down.

Gift of Honor

2010-08-04T10:16:00.038-04:00

Letting my family know they are the most important treasure God has given my is the desire of my heart. Yet, at times the broken decor, scattered messes or sibling conflicts get the best of me and I communicate frustration. I remember as a child feeling like an annoyance and a pain in the booty at times. These feelings really hurt. I thought in Where the Wild Things Are they did an excellent job of illustrating this point. You see an energetic little guy who gets on everyones last nerve, and all he wants is to be someones treasure. I believe children knowing their infinite value to mom is an essential message in building a high sense of self worth in our kiddos. To set myself up for success and be able to communicate how special they are to me I am eliminating some of the potential for them to make a mess. All the toys are going in the basement in bins. Each day I will take the kids down and let them pick out a few toys to enjoy. I think this will be a great way to keep their toys new and exciting, alleviate being surrounded with too much and eliminate the mess that sends this mommy into annoyance.

We also just implemented dates with our kiddos to help communicate their value and make them feel honored. On Saturday Cory took Sissy and I took Brother. I let Big Brother pick where ever he wanted to go and of course, he picked the Dinosaur Museum. We had the best time! It was by far my favorite day we have ever had together.

Caleb's Favorite Dinosaurs

Of course, the Tyrannosaurus Rex

Ceratosaurus

going up to viewing area of another of his favorites

Allosaurus

He couldn't wait to go digging for dinos!!

Mommy digging before I got in trouble for too much helping.

I couldn't resist putting this picture in,

can you guess what this face is about?

A hint, we had just finished lunch.

The Discovery Room was full of fun.

This boy loves Shamu after our trip in the spring to Seaworld

Right before we went on our date he filled

his scoop jar and got to pick one of the

coolest dinosaurs from the gift shop, the Spinosaurus

He actually let me take a couple of pictures, such a handsome sweet guy.

Subjected in Hope

2010-07-30T17:05:00.001-04:00

The suffering of this world has been hitting me pretty hard, lately. Mostly, because it is so close to home. I'm perplex by it and in my limited knowledge it is hard not to ask WHY? Some of the why was answered in Piper's sermon to a congregation and family that is watching their 30 something pastor, husband and father battle a tumor in his brain. "Subjected in Hope"
He reminds me this world is not as it is meant to be. There is pain and suffering, but it is not in vain. God is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance, acknowledging Him as LORD of their life. I pray my life reflects this for those that He puts in my path, especially my children. And thus, the hurt we see and experience, He will use for good.

Half Full

2010-07-28T12:24:00.002-04:00

We have all heard the saying about the glass and I've never thought of myself as a half empty girl, but I've realized lately that my eyes have been staring at the clear part of the glass. As I've been digging deeper I realize it goes right along with my problem solving personality, which is a strength. In order to make things better you have to see the problem, so you can solve it. However, if you get fixated on the problem you fail to see all the good that is going on in the mist of what needs sharpened. Even when things are way off and seem a mess there is always some good. Corrie Ten Boom, a survivor of the holocaust, reminds me that even in the darkest place we can always look up. "If you look at the world, you'll be distressed. If you look within, you'll be depressed. If you look at God you'll be at rest."

I've been doing an awesome bible study Calm My Anxious Heart by Linda Dillow and it really has helped me see my perspective is seeing the mud instead of the stars. Whether, it be with my role as mommy, my body or with the people both friends and family I have been focusing on the things that need fixing and not all the wonderful. I've been so encouraged by Philippians 4:8
Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.

I am not suggesting we ignore problems. Rather, see the problem, point it out if necessary, even come up with a solution if possible, but then focus on the good. The temptation is to hyper focus on the less than desirable. Seeing the tiny weed in the mist of a beautiful flower garden. I know there are seasons where it feels like the weeds just keep growing, choking out the beauty. Thus, making it all the more necessary to keep our eyes fixed on the flowers no matter how minimal they seem and then get to weeding. I've found this applies to all aspects of my life, but one area imparticular is focusing on that one part of a person's personality that seems like a tall thistle ready to burst seed and I miss all their beauty.

Even if their beauty doesn't stand out like the butterfly it is there and we must choose to let that be our focus. I was especially encouraged last night by the Proverbs 31 women who is the perfect example of seeing what's going on around her, giving wisdom, but not dwelling on things that lead to destruction.
She opens her mouth in skillful and godly Wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness [giving counsel and instruction]. She looks well to how things go in her household, and the bread of idleness (gossip, discontent, and self-pity) she will not eat.
And now to dwell on some of that lovely.

Our fishing project

They loved the craft of making them

But the fishing was the best part

All smiles on her catch of the pink fish

Kisses from Daddy over the moon

If this looks fun check out how to get it done at Fun Mom Online.

Baffeled By Backgrounds

2010-07-27T10:18:00.004-04:00

Ever since I started this blog I have been trying to make it cuter and cuter for free. Thanks to Cutest Blog on the Block and Shabby Blogs there a some fun free blog backgrounds. Yet, at times the backgrounds have not been quite right for what I needed on my blog. Plus, I love doing my digital scrapbook software, so I knew I could have a great time creating background images if I could just figure out the secret. I got the basic how to's from a very a helpful site, but it still wasn't working. I don't have Photoshop, so following the directions exactly wasn't an option and making do wasn't cutting it. Finally, after countless hours thanks to my determined personality, I figured out dpi and the type of image (jpg or png) makes a huge difference in the world of html code. I am inspired to change my background, because I just got great new pictures from the amazing Robin Sherman in Dallas. I am going to remind myself what I figured out, because updating my background doesn't happen but about every six months and I'm sure I will forget by then and it may help you, too. The main thing to keep in mind if you're not working with Photoshop when you are getting directions for Photoshop is to stick as close to possible with the dpi and dimension recommendations. In her example she used 100 dpi and made the image 14"x 7.5". In my software the closest options were 150 or 96 dpi, so I just adjusted my image to 15" and saved it at 96 dpi. I actually I had to make it a bit smaller in height. Don't ask my why. After several attempts of loading to my Photobucket account sized at 1 MEGA, I got my image to fit in the background section. The other issue is the column width for the post information. The white background in my case. She recommended nine inches for a 3 column blogger blog. For me 10 inches worked better, maybe because I expanded the image. Again, who knows? I am really loving my new background and header. Now, if I can just remember how I imported a font and changed the color I can make everything match. If history repeats it could be hours or days, but eventually I will have the blog looking up to snuff. It might make sense to hire someone, but I think solving the mystery is half the fun for this stay at home mom of two adorable munchkins.

Check them out in the new header and background.

9th Inning Win!!

2010-07-22T11:28:00.013-04:00

Last night we got the opportunity to go to the Pirate's game first class. The tickets included an all you can eat nice dinner in the fancy Lexus club and plush seats right behind home plate. Not to mention the all you can eat snacks and nonalcoholic drinks. Some high end things seem over the top to me, but I have to say I am all about watching baseball in first class. The seats put you right in the action and they are super comfy to boot.

We were really enjoying the game, the Pirates were winning and the kids were all smiles. Then Caleb remembered that balls fly into the stands on occasion and he became obsessed with getting one. I didn't want a replay of the Penguin hockey puck meltdown. Especially, among all the Lexus season ticket holders. I could image their tolerance for a four year old tantrums would be low. I told Caleb we would leave if he got upset about not getting a ball. He recovered, but was still pretty miffed each time someone else caught a foul ball. Around this time the bat boy decided to start pitching the reject balls out into the crowd. Oh great, the ball obsession was turned up a notch and we still had several innings for Caleb to practice self control. I remember thinking, can't you just toss him a ball so the occasional mild pouting doesn't turn into major meltdown. Then I thought, no it would not be good for him. Maybe easier on me, but not good for him to be rewarded for a bad attitude. If we needed to leave that was a sacrifice I needed to make. He about lost it in the 8th and I reminded him that throwing a fit would not get him a ball and we would need to leave. He pulled it together. Daddy told him multiple times just keep trying. He would wave, but the bat boy's glance never made it far enough our way. Finally, in the 9th inning right before Alvarez's second home run

with a big grin and an emphatic wave he made eye contact with the bat boy who kindly tossed us a ball. You have never seen a little guy's face light up that big. He was so ecstatic.

His joy was noticed by all the people around us. It was such an amazing moment for me. There is nothing as enjoyable as seeing your children filled with delight. Especially when it was well deserved.

Here are some highlights from the night.

Parties and People

2010-07-19T10:57:00.003-04:00

One of the things we have loved and wanted to be very intentional about since we moved here was investing in our neighbors. We barely knew our neighbors in the house in Plano, mostly because they were all 70 plus and rarely came out of their homes. I still felt a lose that we lived in a house for five years and hadn't invested anytime in the people. We have really gotten to know a number of our neighbors here, which I love. One of the main benefits in having community in such close proximity is they can just pop over and have fun spontaneously. The not so spontaneous is a blast as well, like the lightning bug party my neighbor throw.

The Host

Caleb and Jack inspecting their find.

Cuties

Can you see them?

Daddy getting in on the action

Makaylee watching daddy catch the bugs

Caleb ticked because he didn't win the contest

The winner of the contest

and his sister

and his brother

Thankful for neighbor buddies

Another benefit of getting to know our neighbors is hearing stories that remind and encourage me, good or bad we are always impacting people. A final benefit is the awesome opportunity we have to help each other. This past winter we had the most snow fall on record and hence learned we had a neighbor who was dying of cancer. We were able to get to know this family and be a friend through this difficult time. We've also learned the direct impact this difficult economic time is having on people just down the street. While, I was handing out invitations to help with the bug party, I saw a termination notice on a neighbors window. It reminded me of a challenging financial time in my life. Thankfully, we never got behind on our bills, but it was a rough season. I 'm just thankful that my sweet friend Kris and her family saw a need and helped me when I didn't have the financial means to fix the problem myself. It was humbling to take a handout, but it was also a great motivator. It reminded me that when we see a need and have the means to meet it, we should. Maybe then our government wouldn't have to be giving money out to people who aren't using it appropriately. What an opportunity we have to help and impact those around us when we pray for and are intentional with these opportunities.

SISSY

2010-07-14T18:41:00.001-04:00

2 years OLD

{Little Sis}

Always smiLing

amaZing PerFormer

lover of doGGies

caleb's BIGGEST fan

fearLess and deTeRmined

LoVeS To LauGH

LOYAL defender

pillAgER

cuDDle buG

LoveR of WubbY
DAiRy intoLeRant

{beautiful} BOTH inside and out

more fruit PLEASE

caRe giVer To babies
LoVaBLe spitfire

MAKER of messes

Joy and a Blessing...

my amazing GIFT from the {LORD}

Bomb Bomb!!!

2010-07-05T10:26:00.001-04:00

I love taking pictures of the kiddos, so I can record their life, but they hate it. I always post the few pictures we get of them smiling. This is not a true depiction of the Ruiz kids when they see a camera. It takes much bribing, reprimanding and begging on my part to get them to even look at the camera much less give me a smile. The 4th was right on par with a typical photo shoot. A BEATING!!

Here they are refusing to look at me, but Caleb giving me the fake cheese smile.

Still refusing to look at me and my attempt at bribing them with flags.

The bribing attempt failed as usually and Makaylee is now pitching a fit, because I took the flag away. When she wasn't whacking her brother with it, she was enjoying its nice pine taste.

Daddy came to save the day and got the kids laughing, but Caleb is still doing his best to withstand making this a successful event.

Finally he succumbed to Daddy's comedy act and gave us the huge grin I love.

Here is the one picture I usually get in the mist of a hundreds that keep me blogging.

We spent the 4th at the Carnegie Science Center in the city, giving us front row tickets to the amazing fireworks.

The view was amazing from the roof, but it was extra loud. Sissy got a little scared and Caleb said the fireworks hurt his ears, but once we covered them they were all smiles.

We had to kill time after the show to not get stuck in the sea of red lights, so we had fun touring some of the exhibits.

Watching the robot was fascinating.

The train exhibit is amazing. Forbes Park replica. They used 23,000 Q-tips to represent the people watching the game.

We waited for an hour hoping traffic would lighten up and headed to the car around 11:15. A very long day after Idlewild and no naps. Makaylee feel fast a sleep in her car seat and missed the 45 minutes sitting in the parking lot waiting to get to the road. Caleb however, overly tired and ready for his comfy bed lost it completely screaming and crying until he wore himself out. It was a fun day, but I am telling you this mommy thing is not for the faint at heart. As we sat I thought about what this day is about and all the mommies who have sent their loved ones off to fight for this great country. It brings tears of thankfulness and reminds me to treasure every moment we get to experience this amazing freedom with our families even the times that seem difficult.

WT Disney otherwise known as Idlewild

2010-07-05T09:54:00.001-04:00

We found a really fun amusement park, just an hour and half from the house. The crowd it gathered was very diverse, but I think we were exposed to the much referenced hillbilly folk. I felt a little judgemental, but I don't think I've ever seen so many people in one place in bad need of dental hygiene. However, it was really fun and perfect for the little ones. There was also a fun water park included in the price of admission and Caleb and Daddy had fun going down the tube ride together.

All the rides are little kid friendly and Caleb broke out of his cautious self and road a big roller coaster, log ride and a number of rides that whip around and around.

There was even a number of toddler friendly rides that Sissy loved.

Caleb kindly escorted his sweet sister all around the park.

It was very fun, but extremely hot and I don't think I have felt this exhausted in a very long time. We took a walk down memory line through Storybook Forest. All the pictures are of Sissy, because Caleb was so naughty he got grounded to the stroller for the first 2 hours of day two at the Park.

Sissy keeping him company

I don't remember this nursery rhyme, but I thought this big chair was a great picture opp.

This "Chu Chu" represented my favorite childhood story,

The Little Engine That Could.

The famous Sword and the Stone.

I guess Sister was not The Chosen One.

We took a little break on our tour, so Makaylee could fill her shoes with rocks and dirt.

Caleb's punishment may seem harsh, but the original consequence was grounding the whole day. It was too heart breaking to watch him miss out on the whole day, so we gave him many chances to earn back the privilege of the park. I think I was as happy as him with his success.

Musical Beds

2010-07-02T11:18:00.001-04:00

We have a new tread around here lately of starting in one bed at the beginning of the night and ending up in another at the end. We have four beds in the house and each night we give the kiddos their pick of Brother's, Sister's or Grandma's bed. Most recently Makaylee is choosing Caleb's bed, which she refers to as Sissy's bed. No she is not meaning herself, but endearingly refers to her big brother as Sissy.

Previously, Cory and I have always been strict about not letting our little ones sleep with us. However, I guess now that they are traveling to us in wee hours of the morning we have grown soft. There is also the occasional bad dream that wakes one of them up and they just need mommy or daddy for comfort. I know it goes against all the Baby Wise rules, but we had great sleepers as babies and now that we have a preschooler that needs to potty on occasion during the night in an effort to not wet the bad, and a toddler who is a complete cuddle bug we feel like this is a healthy stage for our family.

We always start the night sans kids, so Cory and I can have alone time, but having those sweet little ones surprise us with a cuddle in the middle of the night is a treasure I don't want to miss. It is also the times I most often hear Caleb's tender side. There is nothing as wonderful as an unsolicited "mommy I love you," the words, "you are the best mommy" or the newest addition to his affirming words, "mom you are my treasure."

Baseball Camp 2010

2010-06-28T16:25:00.002-04:00

Crafting with Daddy

2010-06-25T16:07:00.000-04:00

Daddy is working hard on being more creative and what better way to stretch himself than a fun little craft with Caleb.

Winnie

2010-06-23T20:36:00.002-04:00

My kiddos would be ecstatic if this sweet girl was a new addition to our home, but no such luck. Daddy is still a dog hater. Well maybe not a hater, but has no desire to add man's best friend to this family.
We found Winnie mindlessly walking down the busiest street in town resembling a panhandler as she strolled from car to car. Thankfully she stopped at our car, I opened my door and she jumped in. Her owner had her well marked with a number, so we gave them a call. We got no response, so Winnie headed home with us. The kids were thrilled. They are both huge animal fans and especially love dogs.

Winnie is a young dog with lots of energy and very sweet. She seemed a little nervous, but still waged her tell and toured the house. It was nap time, so playtime with our new friend ended quickly. The owner called while the kids were asleep to come pick her up, but not before she and I enjoyed a bowl of blueberries. Winnie was a huge fan of this antioxidant.

Fun Father's Day

2010-06-22T16:31:00.012-04:00

We had a really fun Father's day. It was especially nice because we have been consumed with our yard for the last several weekends, so having family time was much needed. It started out with making Daddy breakfast. A rare event in this household.

Then we went to the pool. It has been interesting watching the kids go from clinging with the death grip the first couple visits to the pool to becoming two little fish.

Caleb has mastered the cannonball

After, the super fun time at the pool we headed home for nap time for some reenergizing.

When they woke up we made Daddy his favorite
sugar cookies.

The shape of stars to remind him he is our star.

Then we delivered the cookies to him outside since

he was back at work on the yard.

After the cookies and dad's presents,

we decided to go visit the neighbors and spent the rest of the evening hanging out and and having a great time with them.

Happy Father's Day from Caleb

2010-06-20T09:44:00.004-04:00

Loves Dinos

2010-06-16T16:08:00.008-04:00

The first dino dig was such a success I decided to try it again. However, the first one was a birthday present that cost $21. Little pricey, so I found this fun dinosaur puzzle at Michael's for $2.

I had Moon Sand, which usually drives me batty, but was prefect for diggin for Dinos. I just put everything in a 9x13 cake tin. And we used the pointy end of the paint brush to dig and then the other end to dust.

The kids had a great time. I do recommend this being an outdoor event, Moon Sand is very messy and hard to clean up.

They both got very excited about their discoveries.

And with much bribing I was able to get them to pose for a few pictures.

The finished Tyrannosaurus. Not the most sturdy but pretty cool for 2 bucks.

What to wear?

2010-06-11T11:35:00.003-04:00

Watching Makaylee really fascinates me. She loves all things girl, but is rough and tumble and will not let anyone push her around no matter how much bigger. She is totally into going in my closet and confiscating articles of my clothing. It always seems to be slips, bras and underwear. There is nothing like greeting house guests with a pair of granny panties that have morphed into a very fashionable silk scarf.
She loves acessories and apparently thinks winter hats should not be put up for the summer.

I love this little girl she is most definitely got the personality that wants to keep us all in stitches. She feels right at home front and center stage. There is not a shy bone in her body. If someone is within 20 feet they will get a big smile and an emphatic wave.

Caleb also is finding dressing up to be quite enjoyable.

He loves to run around the house jumping off furniture and swinging his sword at the dragon. Frequently, Makaylee gets to play the role of the dragon and she seems to take in stride blows from the dragon slayer.

From the mouth of babes

2010-06-09T17:26:00.000-04:00

One thing that my little buddy does that often leaves me perplexed is giving the cold shoulder to friends and family. It is not necessarily consistent, but every so often he is very unwilling to talk to Grandma, Grandpa Cowboy or sweet Attie Jo on the phone. I feel bad when he turns them down, but making him talk is a battle that is so not worth having. He has been known to dis his friends on occasion when we meet for play dates. He went through a phase with his buddy Coleton and most recently with another friend the other day. We met up at the mall and Caleb was so excited before they arrived, but upon their arrival like the flip of a switch he become very cold. This was difficult, because I don't like to see people get their feelings hurt. However, I was enlightened by a 3 year old. Landon came up to me and ask, "Why is Caleb being shy to me," to which I wisely responded. "I have know idea, when you figure it out please let me know." I really think this wise 3 year old had figured it out. When Caleb is feeling a little insecure about a situation he acts aloof. I don't really know how I will help him overcome this insecurity, but I am hoping communicating that his buddies and family are so thankful for him and can't wait to play or talk to such a special boy will do the trick.

And baby makes three

2010-06-04T08:30:00.000-04:00

No he is not ours, we just got the pleasure of hanging out with him for the day. After a day like this I would say having three would be totally manageable. However, that is given the baby is as perfectly behaved as baby Hayden. The little guy was sick and still content and enjoyable the entire time. He also rocked a two hour nap with no effort to get him into la la land. As you can image this increased my desire for a baby brother all the more. Then my first born kindly brought me back to the reality that this mommy thing is totally humbling me and causing me to fall to me knees in prayer. Each day I ask for the wisdom to raise these little ones. Thoughts frequent my mind that they will have to seek therapy to repair all the damage I have done. That may seem dramatic, but seriously I feel this way.
As I talked about in a previous post things have been rough since our trip to Texas and the moments of joy that come with parenting were growing few and far between. But I am so encouraged, now. I was really feeling like I might have a little buddy that was boarding on bi-polar. No I am not joking. One moment he would look at us and tell us how much he loved us, how wonderful we are and the next be kicking and screaming like an insane person. Cory and I have heard from a number of people over the years how hard we are on Caleb. It wasn't that I didn't want to hear that, I just didn't like the idea of the alternative. I look around at a society that is driven by instant gratification and no self-discipline and with these qualities the depression and strife. Both Cory and I are disciplined and driven and at times we are joy kills, but our drive is really a part of both of us that I admire. We both would attribute this to our Dad's expecting a lot from us. As children it was hard, but we are both very thankful for the people we are today. But there is always the other side of the coin when you are dealing with people's personalities and I really feel like Caleb is wound up tighter than a drum. I attribute that 100% to me not understanding who he is and parenting him appropriately. In my ignorance I missed that our little guy was feeling so beat down that he was a canon waiting to go off. We have always asked him to walk a very tight rope and it has been way too much for anyone to handle. I think the standers have reached beyond high to impossible. I am not down on myself, because this parenting thing is hard. I'm just extremely grateful for awareness and that Cory and I are on the same page. We have had two days of extreme contrast from the last 3 weeks. Yes, tantrums and naughtiness have still taken place, but allowing him sometime to defuse and reach calmness have been huge. I see joy in his eyes and know that it will be bumpy but we are on a road that I can't wait to go down. A stark contrast to the previous road of fear being the driving factor.

Dino Dig

2010-06-02T22:37:00.000-04:00

Sunday night I came down with horrible stomach pains. It wasn't a typical stomach ache or even stomach cramps it was like there was a needle going done my digestive track poking and scraping on it's journey. Who knows exactly what it was. Possibilities were, I was not able to handle the new Chai Latte that I recently purchased from the grocery in my attempts to get my Starbucks addiction under control. Second, maybe food poisoning from salad dressing in the fridge that wasn't past it's expiration, but had been there awhile. Finally, a mild outbreak of E Coli. I would explain, but it would take too much time and might gross out the weak stomach. So sufficed to say, I was down and out for Memorial Day. Cory was a great help and besides my kids just needing occasional mommy time I was able to rest most of the day. I was so weak by Tuesday with no food or fluids Cory stayed home in the AM to help get me back on my feet. By lunch time I was doing much better. I wasn't ready to run, but a Dino Adventure was perfect for getting my little ones to sit and dig in hard packed clay for a good hour.

It was fun, but I definitely could never be a paleontologist. I would destroy every dig site with my lack of patience. Hence, we lost the neck to our Tyrannosaurus and had to find a replacement, so Mr. Rex's head could be attached. We also broke a couple toes off and split the arm in two, but nothing a little Gorilla Glue couldn't repair.

The Biggest Entitlement Program

2010-05-26T20:00:00.000-04:00

If you're like me government entitlement programs are very unsettling. When in history has it ever proved affective to give people free handouts with out requiring any sacrifice on the recipients behalf? So, if it is that concerning when the government does it, why I am I not doing everything in my power to remove entitlement from the little ones in my care? One of our jobs as parents is to teach our children discipline. If all we do is give them freely God's resources that have been entrusted to us how are we teaching them discipline and sacrifice?. The last two weeks around here have been rough. I could easily blame it on two weeks with Grandma and the kiddos getting everything their hearts desire, but I think I would be missing the truth. While that may have contributed to the problem, I was made painfully aware of the monsters I've been creating after the celebration of Caleb's birthday party. He has been naughty ever since we came home from Texas. It has been pretty overwhelming watching my little ones treat each other as though stuff is far more important than loved ones, but until Sunday it was more a theory. After a wonderful party and great celebration one would think I would have the happiest little boy on the planet. Oh contraire! His behavior resembled the little boy in the movie Problem Child. I decided to take away everything for a few days to help him feel the pain of his bad choices, but what I realized after two days is that my theory was actually reality. I finally fully understand the devastation that results when our focus gets on things. In the past two days the kiddos have been getting along fabulously. No fighting over toys and I haven't heard the words "hey that's mine" or seen Caleb plow his sister as she confiscates a Dinosaur. I am working on our language to teach them everything is God's and none of it is ours, so they realize they are gifts entrusted to them. A great reminder to me as well.

I lost my beloved iPhone. I was pretty upset. I left it on the playground and when I went back to retrieve it, it was gone. I wanted to cry, but I thought about the message I am trying to teach my children about stuff. I realized it is just stuff and can be replaced. Maybe not now, because it would cost a few hundred dollars. For now maybe God wants to remove an item that frequently metabolises my time and robs me at times of being all he wants me to be.

Caleb is 4!!!

2010-05-23T00:08:00.031-04:00

We celebrated his 4th birthday today and it was amazing thanks to Daddy!!! We thought we were going to have to cancel the bounce house we ordered because of the none stop rain we have been experiencing. 2 years in a row it has tried to rain on our parade. However, Daddy pulled through in the clutch and not only found a new location indoors but managed to get an awesome Chuggy Choo Choo that fit perfectly in the banquet room at the golf club.

It seemed that everyone had a blast.

We enjoyed some food and played a game.
Lindsey one of Caleb's friends from preschool found the first Night Fury.

And Coleton a great buddy won the second prize.

Hosting events is definitely not my strong suit. I tend to get a little stressed out and ampt up. Hence we sang happy birthday after I served half the cake to the kiddos. And then I loudly declared CRAP!! So all the little ones got to take home a great vocabulary word. Oops.

Of course we had the How to Train Your Dragon theme.

Jeremy captured this picture of two moms that are always behind the lens and rarely ever seen.

So thankful for this family being in our lives and living just a couple houses away.

And I love this family that we have built great memories with over the last year.

I determined that simple things like noise makers, rings with dragons on them and balloons are great entertainment for preschoolers. Such a fun time, and I especially loved that the clean up was super low maintenance. I am so thankful for all our sweet friend that came and made this day so special.

Caleb loved that he got to celebrate and play with his wonderful friends, but he was also pretty excited about the presents.

Here he is enjoying one of his new toys in the shower before bedtime, ending an amazing and blessed day.

Growing Up Fast

2010-05-19T15:53:00.016-04:00

You really see how quickly your little ones are growing up when you move away while friends have newborns or are pregnant and you return almost a year later to little people who can walk, talk and are developing unique personalities. I had so much fun reconnecting with my mommy group and sweet friend Alyssa. I always miss these girls, but after spending a couple days getting filled with great conversation, and watching our kiddo reconnect like no time had passed it was especially hard to say good-bye. Thankfully it was super hot and I couldn't breath so I had a little motivation to get back to the north. Oh and Cory was at home and missing his family. The Vorel's hosted use for 2 nights and I loved it. Courtney really is a person that models Christ amazingly. I always think of the verse Paul said imitate me as I imitate Christ. She lives out her walk and I do look to her for wisdom and encouragement. So I was especially excited to get to be inserted into her everyday. I was encouraged and left feeling loved and cared for. All the kids did great together. I will especially cherish watching Makaylee and Lillie bond on our drive home from the Science Museum. They sang together made up games and Lillie even made up a sweet song about her brother we got to enjoy. The boys had a great time at the science museum and especially enjoyed digging for dinosaurs.

Or should I say jumping off` rocks

Watching the big nose sneeze

Playing in the water

Being firefighters

We also stayed at the Kreusch's house for a night and I had so much fun visiting and getting great advice from Caren. All the travel has been so worth it and considering the long hours and many miles has gone amazing. After this fun trip to Dallas I headed to Denver. My sweet little ones are in the care of Grandma and Papa and I can't wait to see my Sister, Attie, Dad and all my other wonderful family. The only thing hard about flying without my kids is leaving them behind

Adventure Kingdom Part II

2010-05-13T12:32:00.000-04:00

The Cake

Dinos for brother and of course princesses for our princess A party wouldn't be complete without presents

The mini golf course was impressive.
Four!!! Someone forgot to tell Caleb it was 40 feet not yards.

Getting in on the fun

The balloon game was a blast we got soaked, but so did papa.

We were so thankful for the family that shared this special day

Aunt Shelda

Papa

Caleb and Joni

Maddie and Makaylee

Adventure Kingdom Birthday

2010-05-12T23:09:00.044-04:00

I will treasure this one because my focus wasn't divided. All I did was show up and put these tees I made on the kids.

Renee did all the work so I just got to enjoyed every moment
celebrating my sweet kids. We started out riding around in the paddle
boats.

Both kids loved them. I got to enjoy big smiles and great leg work.
What better to enjoy after a workout then some yummy pizza

The computers uploading painfully slow so I will finish uploading the rest of this fun day tomorrow.

The New Self

2010-04-30T22:17:00.004-04:00

I went to a Beth Moore simulcast last Saturday my church offered relating to her recent book, So Long Insecurity You've been a Bad Friend to Us. As I mentioned in my last post I started reading her book and I've been given such an awareness of not only my own issue with insecurity, but how this is dominating the culture of women and girls today. I've recently become passionate about changing this tread through my involvement with my Aunt's awesome organization Emmie's Hope. Now I feel like this topic is all around me. Taylor Swift who I love said, her favorite song was a TLC's from a while back Unpretty. As I watched the video I was reminded of the messages that society bombards us with, whether it be in the checkout line at the grocery store, in the people we see at the gym or even more sad sometimes from those that are close to us. We live in a culture where our security is wrapped up in the opinions of people who think our outside matters more than our inside. However, I am encouraged because the world may be saying lift this and cut this, but God is saying we are fearfully and wonderfully made. So regarding insecurity, when we feel the sense of getting our significance from how we are perceived by people we must not let this be our filter. We must remember that our security comes through Christ. The God of the universe who made every single person that we elevate to a place that allows them to make us feel a lack of worth, God created. His opinion matters far more than theirs. And He thinks we were so special that He sent His one and only Son to die for us. I can't image sacrificing my beloved boy for anyone. That is true love, a love we can rest and be secure in. At the simulcast we were encouraged in Ephesians 4 to put off the old self and put on the new self. When we start to feel an insecurity rearing it's ugly head we make a choice to know we are special not because of what we look like, how much money we have, where we live or how educated we are, etc. but because we are a child of God The Almighty. He loved us enough to create us because He knows with full dependence on Him we can do great things. I am encouraged because 300,000 women heard this message last Saturday and I know that God is going to do a great work in us as a nation. We will pave the way, so our little girls know they are fearfully and wonderfully made, because we are modeling this for them in our SECURITY IN CHRIST. Thankful that God blessed me with my little girl and I have an opportunity to pursue a life that shows the world we can be the exception.

Scrapbooking ideas

2010-04-28T22:00:00.092-04:00

January -March 2010

Dragon Trainer and Little Princess

2010-04-26T19:34:00.026-04:00

We are about to do some serious travel over the next two weeks and part of the fun is having a birthday party with Cory's family in Texas. Grandmaw sweetly wants to throw her grand babies a bash and the theme is Dragons and Princesses. I put together these quick invites, because this is fun to me. They are not the best, but I love that they incorporate pictures of the kiddos and Caleb's art. He was totally into printing out and coloring all the dragons.

Two years with my beautiful baby girl

2010-04-20T21:40:00.107-04:00

I think it is official that I no longer can call Makaylee a baby. However, she loves playing with babies.

She turned two on Saturday. Weighs 23lbs and is 34 inches tall. Apprently, she is tall and skinny. Every girls dream. I am still in shock. I remember thinking when I just had Caleb that moms who didn't want there little ones to grow up so fast were crazy. I really couldn't relate. Now it feels like a blink and I have a little guy wearing pants that look huge and my sweetie is truly asserting her independence multiple times a day. Her birthday was pretty low key. We haven't really developed a group of friends that I felt like I could ask to humor me as we celebrated her birthday, so we decided to just hang out with the four of us.

Blowing out her first birthday candle with a little help from Brother

First, we went to our favorite place for breakfast. Mainly because the power was out at our house, but I wasn't arguing.

The reason our power was out

Then we went to this awesome place in the mall. I really think we picked the perfect location to celebrate Makaylee's birthday. The kids loved Giggles and Smiles and could not get enough.

We decided after this fun filled event we would have some down time and then headed to church. There we ran into our sweet friends. We had planned to go out to dinner as a family for one final celebration, but to my joy our friends agreed to come along. It was such a special treat. It would have been fun with just the four of us; however, it was heart warming being surrounded with people that have made adjusting to our new lives much easier. I felt like it was God confirming that He lead us here and is guiding and providing. The staff at Max and Erma's added to the fun with a special birthday song.

Makaylee blowing out candle number 2

It is funny how I let a day that was such a cause to celebrate bring out my insecurities. It really felt like such a reminder of the longing I have for those friends that feel like family. In my insecurity I couldn't even see that we have those people here I just need to be willing to put myself out there and ask them to engage with us. In my insecurity I thought they would rather not be asked, so silly. I sure don't want to pass this on to my little ones. I frequently pray that Makaylee will not have many of the insecurities that I battled as a teenager and still at times rear their ugly head. If you have a teenager and want to know a little about some of the struggles they are battling today this blog my aunt's doing will give you some great insight. Emmie's Hope
I recently started reading Beth Moore's new book So Long Insecurity. I haven't gotten too far into it yet, but I'm learning that far more people than we might think struggle in this area. One thing she addresses is even attractive people can be insecure. It made me think of those people out there that might seem intimidating that you might think don't need a friend. I've definitely learned it is better to reach out and deal with rejection then to miss an opportunity to make someone feel special. I don't know that I would have such an appreciation for this if I wasn't in this season of adjustment. I am thankful for this knowledge. Praying for the strength to do something with it and not let my fear of rejection be a hindrance.

This Momma's Gone Mad, These Dragons Really Are MONSTERS

2010-04-16T09:45:00.008-04:00

I am a mess. These stupid dragon toys at Mikey D's have my driving all over town trying to get the red on, no the black one, no now it is the blue one. I have frequently asked myself why? I really don't have an answer. I know it is to make Caleb happy, but come on Momma. Well, I found out at the McDonald's by my house you can get on a list. They will pull out one of each of the toys in the series and call you when they are in to come get the items you want. Oh fabulous, no more driving to 4 different McDonald's in one day. Yes, I am mad. Or, I thought it was fabulous until I found out my name conveniently got misplaced, so we won't be getting the red, teal or Hiccup and Toothless dragons. I was so upset. First, I would have to relay that mommy was wrong and we will not being getting the above mentioned dragons. Second, I would now have to communicate to my 3 year old endlessly that no we are not going to McDonald's today and even if we did they do not have that dragon. Did I mention am hating the Golden Arches. They are everywhere I have constant reminders of these monsters the dag dragons. Lastly, upset that I would not be the mom delivering sweet smiles to my boy for a mere $1.89. I usually don't like to spend money on junk, but Caleb loves these things. Don't judge me I know it is crazy. I was almost in tears today, probably hormones, but I was so upset when the lady was like, "sorry, to bad we don't have your name and there is nothing I can do." I wanted to yell and say make it right, but I knew throwing a fit was not right, nor did I want to set that example for my kids. Caleb cried when one boy on the playground hit his subpar blue dragon with the extra cool Hiccup and Toothless dragon. He then proceeded to throw his blue dragon on the floor and to tell me, "throw it away, Mom I don't want it!" When I finally got to the bottom of the behavior I realized he was a very sad boy that didn't understand why we couldn't get that dragon and he could only have another blue dragon. Great teaching opportunity, but truthfully it stunk. I wanted so bad to deliver for my little guy and the toy Nazi was not going to share her toys no matter what. Okay, so here is where I think God stepped in. I know it my sound stupid, but I really believe God had my back. I was still stewing and thinking I might go let the lady have it when Caleb came and said, "I found Toothless and Hiccup." A child that had left the play area had dropped their toy in the area underneath that you can't get to because it is fenced off. Caleb assured me I could get it, "you have really long arms." I wasn't sure but I was determined and reached as far as I could and with the help of my Go Go Gadget straw I retrieved the prized black dragon. I am so thankful. I know it's crazy, but I really am. We still don't have the red dragon, so I am sure I will continue to have teachable moments of how we should be grateful for what we do have, but at least today we are smiling.

P.S. Okay, here is an update on the dragon debacle. A sweet friend of my Lucia's, dad works for the McDonald's company and so she put a call into him to get us the red and black dragons. Caleb is really excited and wants to check the mail constantly to see if they have arrived.

P.S.S. The previously mentioned McDonald's magically found our name and now magically has extra dragons in every color.
Thankful,

Messy Missy

2010-04-15T17:00:00.005-04:00

Well, after the following event took place we decided to move Sister into a Big Girl Bed. So it is official in order to avoid an unwanted trip to the ICU she is no longer in the crib she was climbing out of.

For a few consecutive days I would here little foot steps above my head during what should have been nap time, but thinking they were Caleb's I didn't go investigate. Finally, one day after a big crash I ran upstairs and found Caleb sound a sleep and my little curious, mischievous, sweetie in her room covered in ink and surrounded in mess.

This girls got mad skills to climb out of this tall crib

Then she proceeded to climb her changing table to find all the fun tubs of everything she could get into and the infamous ink pad, which in my naivete I never thought she would find.

Sadly, I was mistaken.

Thankfully it all cleaned up farely well.

Bins, Bins and More Bins

2010-04-12T08:40:00.012-04:00

I thought I would write this post to encourage myself and anyone out there reading this with little ones.
I spent several hours Saturday going through 15 bins of children's clothes. I started this endeavor to get ready for a consignment sale, never anticipating how emotionally draining the task would be. That sounds a little extreme I am sure, but the process caused me to struggle on a number of levels.
First, the decision to add more children to our family was thrown in my face the entire day. I want more so badly, but I just don't feel a peace that wisdom would have us go down that road. We are almost 100% sure if we decide to expand our family it will be through adoption and yes that process has a huge list of questions associated with it. I won't go into those now, that is a post in itself. But, hypothetically if we answer all those questions and the outcome is yes we want to adopt then that leaves me with, "am I really equipped to have more children." If that answer is yes, then what age do we feel is ideal for the children we adopt. More than likely they will not be infants, which is partly my choosing. But there is another part of me that literally tears up every time I think I will never hold another one of my own little babies in my arms. Hence, the emotional issues sorting through tub after tub of clothes. As I was trying to part ways with their little articles of clothes all I could think of were the memories of my dear ones in those outfits. The outcome at the end of 12 hours of sorting was I could only send one box to consign and the rest are heading back to the basement to Cory's strong protest. So all that said, my advice and encouragement is get a bin to put in each child's closet. Get rid of anything that has a stain and each time they out grow something put it in there and when the tub is full label it with the appropriate items and then never sort through it again until you're pulling it out to put on that sweet new addition to your family. Or, when you are not looking have your husband haul them away for people who will actually put them to use before they are completely outdated. These solutions will help you avoid a long day of boring sorting and emotional melting.

Simmons Farm Easter Weekend

2010-04-06T12:59:00.023-04:00

We had a blast over the weekend.

These little ones are hard to keep up with.

Simmons Farm was super fun.

We started out looking for easter eggs. Sissy loves her red firetruck easter basket. She is now sleeping with it.

Then we had fun painting and planting pots.

This corn sandbox was a great idea. More crafts
They also had a huge slide, so we hiked to it.
Poor Sissy, Daddy sent her down not just once,
but twice even though she strongly protested.
Not the best idea, she got slide burns.
I loved these pics in this cool tube tunnel

The fire truck was also a pretty great photo opp.

But the best part of the day for the kiddos were the tire swings.

Even Daddy had a little fun.

Happy Easter!!

2010-04-04T14:00:00.006-04:00

Thankful that Christ DEFEATED death!!

Great time and The Great Dalmuti

2010-03-30T17:56:00.054-04:00

We are approaching the 11 month mark from when we moved up here and although I really like it there is one aspect that is still really hard. That is missing my dear friends. When you become a parent the dynamic of parenting differences in friendship is introduced. This for me has been challenging. How do you deal with parenting difference? I'm sure as the kids get older this issue will probably become more complicated, but right now it has me craving my like minded friends in the big D. However, as much as I crave the comfort of those relationships that were built over the years I am excited about the amazing neighbors I've been blessed with. I really believe God placed us in the perfect home. To me it is just awesome that there are young kids all around us and that we have 2 neighbors in particular that not only love Jesus, have little kids around the same age as ours, but they are a blast to hang out with. We had them over for fun play time and pizza and then they put their kids down at our house and we broke out the Great Dalmuti. A fun game some friends of ours in Texas (thanks Ben and Ebeth) introduced us to. As you will see from the pictures this game is not the Ruiz's strong point. We still had an awesome time and I so look forward to getting to know them better and watching our boys and girls grow up together.

Just in case I didn't communicate it effectively I wasn't referencing these couples and their parenting. I really don't know their particular parenting styles yet, but their kids are all amazing. We had 3 boys 4 and under and 2 girls under 2 all go down without any trouble. I have to say this might not be a big deal to some, but it was like Christmas morning to me.

Greater Peon 4x

One

Two, yes hide your head in shame.

Three, your DISGUSTING!!

Leslie looking so cute in the pink Peon hat.

Jack crashed out in Caleb's chair.

Jeremy was the Greater Peon 3x

Yes, that is super embarrassing.

And, four!!

The Dunbar's rocked at this game. Carrie was only the Peon the last hand of the night. Other than that they dominated. As you may notice I was never pictured, because even though I came in second to last I was never the Great Peon. Terry was the GREAT DALMUTI!!

Jack extra comfy in the chair.

Landon sacked out with his moose, Bull. I would have taken pictures of all 5 of our precious ones cuddled up for the night, but my camera died at a very inopportune time.

Fired-up with Peace

2010-03-30T08:14:00.056-04:00

The passing of the health care reform has me concerned on so many levels. However, I was reminded this weekend and then again today what is really important and that there is something far more important to get fired-up about. I definitely have asked myself how did we get to this place in America where the majority are moving toward what appears to be a socialized approach to government rather than the principles that have allowed this great nation to prosper for so many years. All I can think is, as Christians are we leading out helping those who need help? What does this help look like? It is not just seeing a person in need and helping them in the short term, but also pointing them to truth. Getting fired-up about what really matters. If we were as passionate about pointing people to Christ as we are about getting rid of the left wing politicians we have in office how would this impact us as a nation. I think back before I knew Jesus. I believed whole heartedly that abortions should be a women's right to choose. I believed divorce was okay if marriage was too hard and the list goes on. I did not believe truth because I didn't know the Giver of truth. I was reminded this past Sunday we can get all up in arms about our government and yes I believe we should have a voice, but more important than that is what are we doing in our homes and neighborhoods to share truth and the love of Christ, so people understand what really matters. This is what will have the greatest impact on our country.
Besides this, eternity should be far more important to me than the discomforts we feel in this life. Yet, I so often focus on what is comfortable. I need to remember that God is willing to tear down the things He has built when they get in the way of knowing Him and following His plan and purposes. I should be so thankful and at peace with this. Just as He did with the Jewish temple a building that not even a hurricane or tornado could take out. But it was in fact torn down by Titus in 70 A.D. I pray this is not the case with the US. I love this country and the life of freedom we have. But if we like the Jews have walked away from His will and purposes and are no longer about the things that God is about I should be praying for God to allow whatever necessary to happen so we may turn back to Him. So much of this country does not have Jesus in their hearts. This is something to get fired-up about. For those of us that do have a personal relationship with our Savior are we letting our light shine, so those around us our taking notice and asking what makes that person different. Why do they have a joy I don't possess?

Caleb is reaching the age where he is curious about things, so he has been asking a lot of questions about Jesus. The other night we were praying before bed and the topic of Jesus living in Mommy and Daddy's hearts came up. The follow conversation transpired.

Caleb: I can have Jesus in my heart?
Me: Yes if you ask Him, know you’re a sinner who needs a savior.
Caleb: opens his bible finds picture of Jesus and says, "Jesus can you be in my heart?"

I don't think he truly gets it yet. He definitely doesn't understand the sin aspect, so it is still over his head. However, it is precious to me that he wants to talk to Jesus.

Forgot the light

2010-03-29T15:42:00.075-04:00

I've been meaning to post that Caleb started school at the end of February. He has really liked it, but today was a different day. He has been struggling with separation anxiety lately. Today I felt heart broken for my little guy and I was causing the pain. I did think about not leaving him at school, but I really don't believe that solution would help this growing problem.

His class

We went through the class photo and he told me about each child. I loved learning about each of his new friends. He remembered all of the boys names in his class except one. When I asked him this boys name his response, "He's naughty." It made me chuckle, but the thought of how my child was being described to the other mommies did flash through my thoughts. Parenting is, so humbling.

Makaylee (22 months) and Caleb (45 months)

Class pictures

After school I thought I would try and reward him for going into class and being a big boy. The Dinosaur Museum was his prize. He was so excited. Sadly, they were closed. It was an hour drive down there and it just never dawned on me that they would be closed on a Monday. Oops. I was a little frustrated, but there is a yummy restaurant right up the street. We enjoyed our lunch, if corralling two kids and cleaning up noodles is considered fun. Then we headed to Starbucks for dessert. After we finished, I needed to get cash to pay for parking. At this point the day's trials got the best of me, and I failed to let my light shine. The banker looked at me like I was an idiot, because I didn't know what she meant when she asked me if I was a customer. Apparently, you are not a customer if you use their ATM and pay $3 to withdrawal $20. The term customer is reserved for the elite people who have bank accounts at their bank. I let her know I didn't appreciate the way she treated me and I would never become a customer at PNC Bank.

Oceanview, California

2010-03-26T22:45:00.112-04:00

We all wanted to spend a little time on the beach,

well except Cory, but he went anyway

and had fun teaching Caleb to skip rocks.Makaylee also enjoyed seeing the rocks splash.

My momma (Soho)

Caleb did not like the sand or the salt water.

He freaked out and only wanted to be on the rocks.

Makaylee however, thought the sand was really fun.

Attie loves the beach and can't wait to move from

snowy Wyoming to beautiful sunny California.

Chelsea and Jordon, our sweet family

who hosted us and put up with chaos for a week.

Caleb showing off his finds.Beautiful girl driving away from

the beautiful Pacific Coast.

Seaworld

2010-03-25T15:19:00.083-04:00

I am sure most everyone has heard the story about the trainer in Florida who was killed, but maybe you don't know the details. Because our trip was scheduled just a few weeks after this tragedy the Seaworld experience was very different than what I remember as a child. The trainers no longer enter the water with the whales. Apparently, they are researching their procedures to insure no other tragedy like the one in February ever happens again. I don't think that there is firm evidence on exactly what happen that day. An eye witness said the whale was no where near the trainer when she initially entered the water. Perhaps she slipped? I did hear that some say she was pulled into the water. The story varies from ponytail to waist. I probably read 10 reports and watched 15 videos and none of them were 100% consistent. What about responsible journalism?? So, exactly what happened remains a mystery to me. I will say after listening to all the reports there is a lot of negative opinions about the park. I thought it was neat to learn about the heart of Seaworld and the trainers. They are trying to learn about marine life and helping insure that it thrives. I am not trying to defend them, but watching the trainers interact you could tell they love the animals.

One show at Seaworld was called Pets Rules and all these animals were rescued. It was amazing watching cats and pigs doing things that I couldn't even get my kids to do. I guess my point is I think these people have dedicated their lives to making a difference and so it makes me sad to hear the negative things. The one thing that was consistent in all the reports was the trainer's love and dedication to her work. I know there are probably arguments to both sides, but it was nice to read and learn the heart of Seaworld. While we were at the park there was a plane flying above with a sign attached that said, "Let the whales out of prison." I did wonder if Seaworld was just in this for the money and clearly this is not the case. So here are a few pictures from our time there. Sorry they were with my phone. I forgot the camera that day. The kids absolutely loved it!!

Makaylee giving the Shamu sign to splash.

THIS WAS MY FAVORITE PART OF THE SHOW!!

The otters were very playful.

and so was this huge polar bear

We loved the dolphins.

Their permasmile makes me happy.

Wild Animal Park

2010-03-24T20:27:00.001-04:00

I am so behind on my blogging, so this is going to be
minimal writing and lots of pictures.

I really liked this park. It had a safari feel and the
beauty of the surrounding was very peaceful.
We went on a ride in a shuttle train around the park and got to see several of the animals.

Junior
Big Daddy

Apparently they are preserving the White Rhino species,
so we saw several of these.

It was a perfect place to take pictures.

The carousel was actually free with our tickets to the park.
FREE such a rare treat.
Attie decided to be a lion
and Caleb decided to be a...not sure, but some animal that licks the ground.

DISGUSTING!!

Makaylee enjoying running around.

San Diego Zoo

2010-03-23T08:22:00.004-04:00

The kids are all animal lovers so we decided to spend the day touring the famous San Diego Zoo. They had so many different types of animals and amazing birds.

I however spent most of my time taking pictures of the kiddos.

So, you won't be wowed by the pictures I captured of the wildlife. The vegetation around the zoo was also amazing, but I thought watching Makaylee play peek-a-boo was more entertaining.

I felt bad, but I definitely had a seen one zoo you've seen them all kind of attitude. I am attributing it to the exhaustion from the prior days activities, the Tri.
The Panda Bear though was exciting. They seem to be rather shy animals, so we never saw their faces, but it was probably a once in a life time experience and that always brings a sense of ah.

This Dog reminded me of Zo, so of course I had to take a picture. It is a called a singing Dog. We didn't hear it make a peep.

Watching the energy of my little guy always inspires me. And watching this cow climb the fence for food was pretty interesting.

It really was a nice zoo. If you go out to Cali it is worth a trip.

One Gaint Meal and Family

2010-03-19T16:54:00.079-04:00

After the race we were STARVING so we decided to go to Cheesecake Factory, because their portions are enormous, not to mention the cheesecake is pretty yummy. My kiddos were totally out of control, but we had a fun time.

And the kids had a blast playing by the water. Jordon added to their enjoyment.

Historical it has been hit or miss when Caleb and Attie get together. Preschoolers are very unpredictable in their temperament. However, the last two times we have all gotten together it has been a treasure to my heart watching our little ones value their family. These pictures express that amazing love and the wonderful friendship they have developed.

The Palm Springs area was beautiful. Cory was very excited there were mountains with altitudes of over 10,000 ft.

Of course, Caleb had to have a picture of the T-Rex off the away on our drive back to San Diego.